{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fat-a-total-loss.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fspecial-thanksgiving-episode-QzFG8Civ","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"Thankful for You","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/ce6bfa4d-5c04-471d-a8fb-d5c6bfbb377e/3451b9a0-c22d-4cdc-a8c0-727dd89f43dc/living-20-instagram-20profile-20picture.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"","height":200,"description":"I figured today was heavy for a lot of us so I asked Andrea, Terra's mom, from episode 59 to hop on a quick recording with like 2 hours notice. I scrapped my whole plan for this week and just wanted a conversation that might be entertaining for those who may need it. We do cover baby death as we both had full term stillbirths and miss our babies tremendously but we have given ourselves \"permission\" to laugh if we need to. And we hope you can do the same. Take care of yourselves today, Mommas. Know we are always here for you...\n\nI polled my IG audience and picked a couple questions to ask her:\nWe answer:\nHow has your family reacted to your dark humor when it comes to baby loss?\nHow do you cut out toxic people?\nHow do you handle your partner who is so thankful you're alive but you really don't feel like you are?\nWhat's your coping vice?\n\nWe also talk about: \nGratitude and Grief at the same time\nHolidays and having no expectations\nThe expectations put on us\nGoing to PTO meetings when grieving\nExplaining yourself for the way you are after loss\nLaughing as opposed to crying\nHow much this is horrible but we are allowed to do this however we want\nLaughing is OK\n\nFollow Andrea @grievinglikeamother and show her support by shopping her store @thegriefcloset\n\n*************************************\nNOTE: I am not a doctor or a therapist. The views of my guests are not always reflective of my own.  I am just a real life loss mom describing her experiences with life after loss. These are my experiences, and I'm putting it out there so you feel less alone. Always do your own research and make informed decisions!\nFor more REAL TALK about baby loss and grief, hit subscribe to be notified when another episode drops!\nSupport the podcast and shop the store!  At a Total Loss Shop\n Instagram @thekatherinelazar \nYoutube: @thekatherinelazar\nEmail: thekatherinelazar@gmail.com\nWebsite: www.katherinelazar.com\n \nSome helpful resources:\nhttps://countthekicks.org/\nhttps://www.measuretheplacenta.org/\nhttps://www.pushpregnancy.org/\nhttps://www.tommys.org/\n \nLocal to Atlanta:\nhttps://www.northsidepnl.com/\n \n\n\n"}