{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fat-a-total-loss.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fthe-loss-life-SWn7oDG5","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"The Loss Life: Katherine + Sarah","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/ce6bfa4d-5c04-471d-a8fb-d5c6bfbb377e/3451b9a0-c22d-4cdc-a8c0-727dd89f43dc/living-20-instagram-20profile-20picture.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"","height":200,"description":"I'm changing it up! This episode will not be centered around loss but more so about life after loss. Sarah from Episode 3 joins me to discuss what the Loss Life looks like! Things are different now, but that doesn't mean we still can't enjoy things, seek out fun, & laugh a lot. Sarah is the perfect example of this being 3 years out from losing her son. Death of our babies alters us, we are a different breed, so Sarah and I discuss what that looks like moving forward in our losses.\n\nSarah and I are friends here in Atlanta, we run with a small Loss Mom group, we have cocktails, laughs, we even have the same OB, all while we bring our boys with us.\n\nSo if you want to know what life kinda could look like years after your loss, here's a not great portrayal but it's probably entertaining af. LOL.\n\nWhat we talk about:\n\nREALITY TV, it's our thing, we love it, who cares\nSpecifically Vanderpump Rules & the Scandoval!!!\nHow watching reality TV has helped in our coping & makes us feel comfortable after loss\nGetting hooked to these story lines because it's something out of our reality.\nOur emotional capacity to handle griefy things in movies & TV\nAnalyzing characters as we watch based on our traumas\nDrinking and grief\nStillbirth and infant death now being written into story lines a lot more or are we just more aware?\nNeeding Loss Moms to run businesses around us so that we can go to them cuz they get it.\nSerial killers or random death tragedies?\nAnd so much more sh*t lol\n\nFind Sarah on IG at @sarah_emmert\n\n\n\n**NOTE: this is always an open platform from the viewpoint of the guest and does not always reflect my beliefs. As always do your own research & use your own judgement on what's best for you. I am not a doctor or a therapist. I am just a real life loss mom describing her experiences with life after loss. This is my real life, and I'm putting it out there so you feel less alone. ***\n\nFor more REAL TALK about pregnancy loss, stillbirth and grief, hit follow!\n\nInstagram @thekatherinelazar\n\nFacebook: @thekatherinelazar\n\nYoutube: @thekatherinelazar\n\nEmail: thekatherinelazar@gmail.com\n\nWebsite: www.katherinelazar.com"}