{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fburnttoastpodcast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fthe-price-of-being-a-good-girl-IFZC5rLX","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"The Price of Being a Good Girl","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/7432252a-372a-42ea-988c-3391e61b86d2/bd8f9452-b7b0-4442-84f6-b8bc86a53a1f/tcfheadshot.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/46396669-dde6-4071-9197-d6984ec860fd\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"The Price of Being a Good Girl\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"You are listening to Burnt Toast. I'm Virginia Sole-Smith. Today my conversation is with Tracy Clark-Flory. Tracy  is a journalist, essayist, and author of the new memoir My Mother's Daughter: Finding Myself in My Family's Fractured Past, which Kirkus calls \"powerful,\" \"deeply researched,\" \"lyrically written,\" \"trenchant,\" and \"moving.\" She's also the author of Want Me: A Sex Writer’s Journey into the Heart of Desire, an NPR Best Book of the year. Tracy writes a weekly newsletter and co-hosts Dire Straights, a feminist podcast critiquing hetero love, sex, politics and culture. You can find more at tracyclarkflory.com. Tracy joined me to chat about her new memoir My Mother’s Daughter, stigma around unwed motherhood, stigma and shame around women who like sex and how so often daughters don’t know their mothers’ lives, especially the parts having to do with love and sex. Paid subscribers also get transcripts, commenting privileges and our bonus Indulgence Gospel segment. This week Corinne and I are chatting about my laser hair removal journey. "}