{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fdiftk.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fget-a-life-zk5aJtyI","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"How to 'get a life' outside of work and kids","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/5244e8dc-6968-4b85-8237-b52d9ddbebf9/460ce14e-d5a7-4841-a074-510b95dda8e0/diftk-podcast-artwork-gold.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/f20fa272-6219-4352-86c0-501fb7af54cd\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"How to &apos;get a life&apos; outside of work and kids\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"“How can I 'get a life' outside of work/kids?\n\nI find being a freelancer really intense, in that all my focus is on looking for work, thinking about work, doing work, following up on work. And oh yeah, looking after my kids! Other than that I don't think I do anything else.\n\nI think back fondly to the days when I used to have actual hobbies, did evening classes and had pastimes that were totally unrelated to the job I did. A lot of this was before kids but it also relates to when I became a freelancer about 4 years ago. I don't tend to switch off because I am always on the lookout for the next client or trying to keep up with research and reading related to my field. It seems like some other people have lovely creative hobbies or are really sporty, but the thought of trying to fit something else in feels too overwhelming.\n\nHas anyone else has managed to reclaim some time to do other things outside of work and family?!”"}