{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fgood-inside.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fsore-losing-and-what-to-do-about-it-cteOqhaP","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"Sore Losing and What to Do About It","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/e99331a9-f165-4bc4-beec-9bdb866f754c/77b6f2c7-95f2-456f-804c-87f192010179/gidrbeckypodcoverfinal3000pxreducedsize.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"","height":200,"description":"Raise your hand if you don’t like losing. Full transparency: Dr. Becky’s hand is up! Guessing yours is, too. It never feels good to lose… at any age, right? Of course, it also doesn’t feel good to watch your kid have a meltdown after losing, cheat in a game, or obsess over winning. We want to raise kids who are “good sports,” but most strategies for teaching sportsmanship just turn out to be lectures. Dr. Becky has a totally different approach. In this week’s episode, she tells parents that it’s totally okay if your kid hates losing or loves winning: The goal isn’t to change how they feel about losing or winning, the goal is to help them tolerate discomfort. Her game-changing strategies on sportsmanship will help you activate curiosity, deshame competition, and understand your child in an entirely new way. Remember: Your child is good inside, even when they’re having a hard time on the outside. \n\nJoin Good Inside Membership: https://bit.ly/3cqgG2A \nFollow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside \nSign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter \nOrder Dr. Becky's book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books.\nFor a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast"}