{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fhigher-love-the-podcast.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fep-43-beef-0QZ88xyK","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"Ep 43: Beef","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/7081ca22-9f5f-45d1-ad8b-bc5c01142fff/106dbe5f-663d-4d52-a752-50d4b8cc45cb/ig-3000x3000-higher-love.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"","height":200,"description":"Have you ever started an argument with the person you love just because…\nwell, you can?? 😂\nYeah,\nI’ve been known to do this from time to time\nWhat can I say??🤷🏽‍♀️\nIf you know anything about my personal archetypes or my natal chart you might reference the fact that ….\nWhile I’m *mostly* a peaceful enneagram 9,\nI also have a strong 8 wing 👊🏽\nEnneagram 8’s, known as The Challenger, are self-confident, strong, and assertive. They revel in challenges and are well known conflict starters\nOr maybe it’s the fact that Mars,\nthe masculine planet of strength and supremacy, known for its ability to instigate and take action\nis conjunct (sits directly) my ascendant -our ascendent represents our outward expression and personality.\nOr possibly it’s because Aries -the god of war-\nis my IC, our IC represents our roots, it’s where we came from and also where we go to for comfort.\nAny who grew up with me knows\nI can be scrappy as heck\nand if I’m comfortable enough to be scrappy and assertive with you…\nyou are truly my person😆\nOrrrrr could it even be that mayyybe I am well aware of the fact that my scrappy, assertive, combative side is the part of my personality that Reggie is most attracted to??\nI’m pretty sure it’s ALL of the above😝🤣😆😬\nAlI know is, when this all comes together\n- oftentimes out of the blue-\nit’s like 👊🏽🥊🔥🚀🧨💪🏾☄️💣😵‼️\nThe most amusing part,\nat least to me😂\nis that there is rarely (if ever) an actual end to the conflict😆\nit’s the CONFLICT that interests me…not the perfectly tidy solution\nSo naturally, I rarely (if ever) let the subject die because well, as you will hear... \nwhere is the fun in that????\n\nEp 43:Beef is now live "}