{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fhigher-love-the-podcast.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fep-45-pet-peeves-JIXGA7_r","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"Ep 45: Pet Peeves?","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/7081ca22-9f5f-45d1-ad8b-bc5c01142fff/106dbe5f-663d-4d52-a752-50d4b8cc45cb/ig-3000x3000-higher-love.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/ceecd3bd-4ff0-466f-ab72-c1a548440833\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"Ep 45: Pet Peeves?\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"Pet Peeves- we’ve all got them \nand can easily spot our partners’ \n- especially when you’ve been together for over 30 years 😜\n\nRecently, \nReggie and I hosted a Live round of “Ask Us Anything” on my Instagram Stories \n\nat the time, we were asked to share  some of our Pet Peeves.\n\nReggie immediately replied with the sweet, albeit unrealistic answer\n “.... none”\nand went on to say that he couldn’t think of any🤨 \n\nUnnntil,\nwe started answering the next few “Ask Us Anything” questions\n- which obtw, had NOTHING to do with Pet Peeves-\n\nand suddenly, \nhe couldn’t stop listing off all the things that I do that he finds particularly annoying!😅\n\nIn that moment, I decided mayyyybe we needed to unpack this topic a little  further?😂\n\nAnd that maybe it would be a good idea to give these grievances more airtime than just the 60 seconds that an IG story allows?\n\nOur latest podcast episode created the perfect space for the airing of grievances… \n\nInterestingly enough, \nwhile in the process of unpacking pet peeves, \n\nwe ended up in a totally different spot... \n\none where Reggie shares some of the things he likes best about me!😳\n\n\nFunny things about grievances…\n\nwhen you allow them to be aired out, be fully seen and heard in a safe space…\n\nit often creates room so that whatever is lying beneath the surface can rise to the top and given the opportunity to be seen and heard as well 🥰"}