{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fjesses-jabber.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fwhat-are-you-thinking-about-i81FvOKv","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"What Are You Thinking About","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/9e46c43b-9196-4333-aa05-2f7b0f9c10b9/af84ea9c-6dba-4301-81bf-4c73ecd5b28f/cropped_1791489669056.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/76e1c2bd-3b53-4da9-b3f1-8b2642420f38\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"What Are You Thinking About\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"In this episode, Jesse reflects on celebrating his 22nd wedding anniversary with Maria and looks back at how their complementary differences keep their relationship strong. Fresh off a fall break week, Jesse dives into a funny yet relatable realization about how their minds work: while Maria is constantly planning, organizing, and looking five steps ahead for their family (\"the Squad\"), Jesse has the rare ability to sit down and literally think about nothing.\n\nJesse breaks down why an \"empty brain\" isn't a sign of being checked out, but rather a essential way to decompress after a long day of decision-making and work focus. He explores the balance between the planner and the relaxer in a marriage, why quiet minds are underrated in a productivity-obsessed world, and why it’s totally okay to answer \"nothing\" when someone asks what's on your mind."}