{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fjesses-jabber.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fwhat-do-you-notice-YcPeot2X","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"What Do You Notice","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/9e46c43b-9196-4333-aa05-2f7b0f9c10b9/76fcf00e-b1f7-4cb7-96fa-f4da566c362a/cropped_1790521559820.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"","height":200,"description":"After two long days on the road in the Great White Whale traveling to Cedar Rapids, Iowa—or as the Squad calls it, \"I-oh-wa\"—for a nephew's wedding, Jesse returns with a carload of snacks, a head full of confusing family tree math, and a big question: What do you actually notice when you walk into a room full of people?\nFrom deciphering distant relatives to decoding who came with who, this episode explores how different people experience the exact same event in completely different ways. Jesse dives into the difference between simply observing someone and making assumptions about their story, how our kids notice things we completely miss, and why living in a big household proves that intentions don't always survive contact with eleven different interpretations. Ultimately, it’s a reflection on slowing down, leading with curiosity instead of certainty, and being a little more mindful of what we’re putting out into the world."}