{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmodern-love.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fa-lifetime-of-good-loving-vhpSeoVx","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"A Lifetime of Good Loving","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/db3c76/db3c768b-254c-4291-946b-8216b0b2a2a1/eca1e89c-e99e-4753-a658-625e9b3333f9/b335632ea69f3a0c9b6235dbc62ccad8a30c7462992ae74f00c3e1127c66d245ae168cdfa53cfc8d5d11293ce0a22e2a953ebe0017f32567b707e15ff71edd93.jpeg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/eca1e89c-e99e-4753-a658-625e9b3333f9\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"A Lifetime of Good Loving\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"When Bette met her husband, he was leaning against a wall at a party. He had, as she put it, “smoldering looks and banked fires.” He was from Brooklyn; she was from the Bronx. She assumed his silent “bad boy” vibe meant “dangerous love and dramatic heartbreak.”\n\nThey got married, and she realized that she’d misread his quiet demeanor: “His eyes were simply beautiful, and his silence wasn’t fierce; he just didn’t have anything to say at the moment.”\n\nAfter 56 years together, Bette’s husband passed away on the eve of the pandemic. Bette, now alone, shares what had kept them together all these years, and what their long love means to her now.\n\nFeatured stories:“Widow Walks Into Wall, Finds Hope,” Bette Ann Moskowitz“Seeing Her in Me,” Alicia Gabe\n\n\nBette's story was recorded by Audm. To hear more audio stories from publishers like The New York Times, download Audm for iPhone or Android.\n\nYou can find more information on today's episode here."}