{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmormon-marriages.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fask-a-mormon-sex-therapist-27-_wC576IM","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist #27","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/012ae067-0b18-4f38-8c45-036f8133565e/6240dd9f-c6b2-4862-8669-d90aab2508d2/aamst-27-mormon-marriages.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/289da57d-b53c-4919-9b72-ed4bc7c9abf7\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist #27\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"QUESTION #1\n“Before my husband and I got married, I always heard the comment, “He’s going to want sex ALL the time.” Well, here we are a couple years in and I feel I want initiate sex way more than my husband does. It doesn’t matter how many times I bring up my concerns, nothing changes. Recently, we decided to start trying to start a family & my husband has had a hard time ejaculating. It has been insanely hard to not take it personally. My question is - what is the best way for me to navigate my negative experiences with my sexual relationship with my husband and move forward in a positive light?”\n\nQUESTION #2\n“I have struggled with premature ejaculation for years. Kegels do nothing. Trying to “calm down” doesn’t work very well, but maybe I haven’t done it right? If I try to reach climax a few hours before it sort of works, but isn’t ideal, especially for spontaneous stuff. What can I do?”"}