{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpure-desire-podcast.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2F484-why-do-i-still-struggle-with-porn-9eEDjTAU","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"484 - Why Do I Still Struggle With Porn? | Dr. Jake Porter","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/e16ccb9a-beed-40aa-bb60-05d1738264ee/db40b74b-a5ff-4a08-8a67-99e5eaa3bd55/podcast-banner-2024.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/fc629286-fd9a-46c4-b827-117bd3cec37d\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"484 - Why Do I Still Struggle With Porn? | Dr. Jake Porter\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"If you’ve ever felt a wave of temptation and thought, what is wrong with me, this conversation will change how you see your struggle.\n\nNick Stumbo and Mike Maxwell talk with Dr. Jake Porter, founder of Daring Ventures and creator of Couple-Centered Recovery, and Dr. Windell Gill, a former pastor and crisis chaplain with more than 30 years of experience helping people grow through relationships, ministry, and recovery. Together they ask a question many people in porn addiction recovery are afraid to say out loud: why do we still struggle?\n\nYou’ll hear why temptation is not the same as sin, why Jesus was tempted and never sinned, and what it means that He learned obedience through what He suffered. You’ll also hear a fresh way to read the garden of Eden, where God meets Adam and Eve’s shame with compassion instead of anger, and why God is not the author of your shame. Then the guests get practical: what to do in the moment you feel the pull, how to move toward something good instead of only fighting something bad, and how to take recovery one day at a time.\n\nAs Dr. Gill says, “The struggle is normal. The tyranny of it is not.”\n\nIf you’re ready for support, find a Pure Desire group at puredesire.org/groups or talk with a clinician at puredesire.org/counseling. You are not alone."}