{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fradicalshift.carlawhite.org%2Fepisodes%2Fhow-to-deal-with-bullies-narcissists-part-2-DEfgDNCr","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"How To Deal With Narcissists And Bullies (Part 2)","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/139590a2-e134-4558-95e0-3402e0f67f32/b9dc7a54-cd3a-43f8-a5f4-63336b39bc4a/radical-shift-oct2019.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/7285e7ec-1fdf-45c9-976d-a51b59f28039\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"How To Deal With Narcissists And Bullies (Part 2)\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"Narcissists and bullies are everywhere so the odds of you having one in your life are pretty high. Most gurus will tell you that YOU are the one who is causing the attraction to THEM. And there is a \"lesson to be learned\" from the relationship. But that is a lie. The truth is there are so many, you will end up with one in your life at some point. You didn't \"do anything bad\" to cause them to come into your life. And you aren't flawed and \"need to learn a lesson\". You thank god for the experience because now you know how to recognize them faster, not allowing for a deeper connection. In addition to that, you now have a strategy to move on without having to deal with their shade, guilt and gaslighting anymore. Listen for the full details!"}