{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fthe-art-of-manliness.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fthe-cues-that-make-you-charismatic-S3vWgSuF","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"The Cues That Make You Charismatic","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/5b7d8c77-15ba-4eff-a999-2e725db21db5/0dbb2522-c63f-4bea-bb79-1b525d40a696/art-of-manliness-cover.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/a0120d80-6a45-4ea4-a84e-f6a790315b26\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"The Cues That Make You Charismatic\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"Charisma can make everything smoother, easier, and more exciting in life. It's a quality that makes people want to listen to you, to adopt your ideas, to be with you.\n\nWhile what creates charisma can seem like a mystery, my guest today, communications expert Vanessa Van Edwards, says it comes down to possessing an optimal balance of two qualities: warmth and competence.\n\nThe problem is, even if you have warmth and competence, you may not be good at signaling these qualities to others. In Vanessa's work, she's created a research-backed encyclopedia of these influential signals, and she shares how to offer them in her bookCues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication. "}