{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fthriving-adoptees.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fwhat-stops-us-thriving-with-vin-ZLd4L6zn","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"What Stops Us Thriving? With Vin","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/240197eb-37a9-44bb-958d-c71a5881c117/fdbc9974-6c87-48b8-979e-c437800bf793/vin-what-stops-us-thriving-1.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/a769f7f6-0430-4206-9152-a7abd20aa338\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"What Stops Us Thriving? With Vin\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"Our motivation away from pain is far stronger than our motivation toward pleasure. That's why painkillers outsell vitamins. But what if we are - completely innocently and inadvertently - prolonging emotional pain? Listen in as Vin and I unpack this to relieve shame, insecurity and all those painful feelings we don't want."}