{"href":"https://api.simplecast.com/oembed?url=https%3A%2F%2Fyou-make-sense.simplecast.com%2Fepisodes%2Fgetting-your-needs-met-_XQ858Ga","width":444,"version":"1.0","type":"rich","title":"Getting Your Needs Met: Shifting from Codependency and Hyper-Independence to Interdependence","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/5f561854-2320-458c-be84-d6c18f5dc129/7ea384a2-10b8-498f-ab41-ca1ae9346575/image-20250502-220554-779.jpg","thumbnail_height":300,"provider_url":"https://simplecast.com","provider_name":"Simplecast","html":"<iframe src=\"https://player.simplecast.com/acb52967-054c-45d6-99bb-dffc72fb42dd\" height=\"200\" width=\"100%\" title=\"Getting Your Needs Met: Shifting from Codependency and Hyper-Independence to Interdependence\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"></iframe>","height":200,"description":"We all have needs. But what happens when we stop listening to them, or never learned how to in the first place? In this episode of You Make Sense, Sarah gently guides us through the heart of relational healing: learning how to get our needs met.\n\nWith tenderness and clarity, she unpacks how early attachment wounds shape our ability to express, feel, or even recognize our needs, leading many of us into cycles of codependency, hyper-independence, or invisible exhaustion. From the helpers who give too much to the ones who learned to stay small and silent, Sarah explores the nervous system patterns that keep us stuck in survival, disconnected from true intimacy.\n\nThrough the lens of somatics and parts work, she introduces a compassionate roadmap toward interdependence: a relational experience where we can be fully ourselves and fully connected. It's not about being needy, it’s about being human."}